THE most important reminder, I say! ;)
"Now here is the tricky bit with giving love in relationships,
and it's the one thing that has prevented many from receiving the life they deserve.
It's only tricky because people have
misunderstood what it means to
give love to others.
To be very clear about what it means to give love to others, you need to
understand what it means not to give love to others.
Trying to change another person is not giving love!
Thinking you know what is best for another person is not giving love!
Thinking you are right and another person is wrong is not giving love!
Criticizing, blaming, complaining, nagging, or finding fault with another person is not giving love!
"Hate is not conquered by hate. Hate is conquered by love. This is a law eternal."
Gautama Buddha (563-483 BC)